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The We-Speak platform is powered by Our Wave, a nonprofit organization dedicated to building meaningful technology to empower survivors of sexual violence. For more information about our technology, team, or partnership opportunities, please visit our website.
We-Speak is a project of Dublin Rape Crisis Centre. From time to time, we work with trusted partners to deliver the We-Speak platform.
The purpose of these guidelines is to describe the ways in our review team reviews and posts survivor stories on our platform. This includes the rules we follow, the content we review, and a few of the reasons we decide to add trigger warnings, not post stories, or send resources to survivors.
Because the intention of We-Speak is to provide a safe and confidential space for survivors, our first job is to redact any information that can identify the survivor or may compromise survivor safety. Below is a step-by-step guide on how we redact content and what type of content is usually redacted.
The We-Speak platform is made possible by the anonymity of the stories submitted. This community can only grow and support each other if all users do so in good faith and are conscious that any breach of anonymity, on another public platform of any kind could jeopardise the existence of We-Speak into the future.
Under Irish law, all individuals have a Constitutional right to their good name. This right is asserted through defamation law. A defamatory statement is one which would lower a person's reputation in the eyes of society, and would cause others to strongly dislike or ridicule them (unless it is true or substantially true). Defamatory statements can be made online or offline.
Contributors to the We-Speak website may also be active on social media. While it is very easy to publicise your own opinions and views on social media, please do not link what you upload to this site to your social media platforms. Think before you post, as you may be affecting somebody else’s reputation. This could in turn have a negative impact on your own life, the life of another and on the We-Speak platform.
We trust that you will bear this in mind now and in the future, both on We-Speak and beyond, in order to empower this community to grow.
We-Speak reserves the right to remove stories from the site, should we become aware that they are in breach of defamation law, or any of our other policies and guidelines.
In general, we redact anything that could give a clue to a survivor’s identity or location. Just because an individual cannot identify them, doesn’t mean their friend or perpetrator might not be able to.
All first and last names are redacted from stories.
Even if they are speaking positively about a place, we redact any proper noun and replace it with the type of noun it is (e.g. we replace “University College Dublin with “university”-- we replace “Galway” with “county”)
Specific dates will be redacted from stories to ensure they are not identifiable. (e.g. we replace “5th September 1992” with “1992”) and specifics such as “Christmas 1992” will be redacted.
In the case that a survivor submits a photography, realistic artwork, or other image depicting an easily identifiable person, we redact identifiable features (e.g. add a redaction blur to the face area). Even if the person’s face is not visible, it may still be necessary to redact other features or clothing of the person if they are particularly identifiable (e.g. unique costumes, name tags, etc.). The goal is to maintain the fidelity and purpose of the media while redacting identifiable components.
We-Speak reserves the right to not post stories that we deem are inappropriate or not applicable to our website. It is our responsibility to determine whether or not a story is appropriate for our page.
Stories that are not appropriate for We-Consent include:
If we believe a story may not be appropriate for our page, we will escalate the review to one of our trauma experts. While we want to represent a diversity of experiences, we want to be sure we are creating a safe environment for survivors to learn from each other.
Stories that are not applicable to We-Speak include:
If we believe a story is not applicable, we will escalate the review to one of our trauma experts. While we want to represent a diversity of experiences, we want to be sure we are focusing on survivors of trauma and violence.
Survivors of sexual violence are often at higher risk of experiencing various mental health concerns including suicidality. As reviewers, we work very closely with our trauma experts to complete the review, and will send additional resources to the survivor via email where appropriate.
Although unlikely, it is possible that survivors of sexual violence may express wanting to injure/hurt others through our platform. This is something we want to take seriously. As reviewers, we work very closely with our trauma experts to complete the review and will often send additional resources to the survivor via email.
Our terms and conditions state that individuals must be over the age of 18 to post a story on our page. They also state that we cannot accept stories relating to child sexual abuse. Where a person submits a story of this kind despite the terms outlined, we will follow these review guidelines:
A note on language: We know that language is important, and people feel differently about the terms used to describe people who have experienced sexual violence. Throughout our We-Speak platform, where space is limited, we will be using ‘survivor’, but we acknowledge that not everyone will identify with this term.
Thank you for being part of the We-Speak Community. We have carefully designed and reviewed these guidelines to create the safest environment possible for survivors while emphasizing the power of survivor storytelling. If you have any questions about these guidelines, please contact us at info@weconsent.ie.
Updated May 31, 2025
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Grounding activity
Find a comfortable place to sit. Gently close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths - in through your nose (count to 3), out through your mouth (count of 3). Now open your eyes and look around you. Name the following out loud:
5 – things you can see (you can look within the room and out of the window)
4 – things you can feel (what is in front of you that you can touch?)
3 – things you can hear
2 – things you can smell
1 – thing you like about yourself.
Take a deep breath to end.
From where you are sitting, look around for things that have a texture or are nice or interesting to look at.
Hold an object in your hand and bring your full focus to it. Look at where shadows fall on parts of it or maybe where there are shapes that form within the object. Feel how heavy or light it is in your hand and what the surface texture feels like under your fingers (This can also be done with a pet if you have one).
Take a deep breath to end.
Ask yourself the following questions and answer them out loud:
1. Where am I?
2. What day of the week is today?
3. What is today’s date?
4. What is the current month?
5. What is the current year?
6. How old am I?
7. What season is it?
Take a deep breath to end.
Put your right hand palm down on your left shoulder. Put your left hand palm down on your right shoulder. Choose a sentence that will strengthen you. For example: “I am powerful.” Say the sentence out loud first and pat your right hand on your left shoulder, then your left hand on your right shoulder.
Alternate the patting. Do ten pats altogether, five on each side, each time repeating your sentences aloud.
Take a deep breath to end.
Cross your arms in front of you and draw them towards your chest. With your right hand, hold your left upper arm. With your left hand, hold your right upper arm. Squeeze gently, and pull your arms inwards. Hold the squeeze for a little while, finding the right amount of squeeze for you in this moment. Hold the tension and release. Then squeeze for a little while again and release. Stay like that for a moment.
Take a deep breath to end.